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Alateen is similar to Al-anon in that members
deal with the difficulties of having a problem
drinker or substance abuser they are close
to but Alateen is geared toward teenagers.
Alateen members often deal with alcoholic
parents or siblings who are substance abusers.
The recovery program for Alateen is similar
to that of Al-anon in that they are both based
on the 12 steps of Alcoholics Anonymous. If
you are a teenager and are bothered by somebody
else's drinking then Alateen is for you. Even
if the problem drinker doesn't live with you,
is not a relative or has even received help
with his or her drinking problem, Alateen
can help with the coping mechanisms that often
persist long after the crisis has ended. If
there is an active alcoholic still in your
life, that is a strong reason to seek Alateen's
help right away.
Growing up in
a dysfunctional environment can be extremely
stressful and there is a natural tendency
to develop defense mechanisms to deal with
dysfunction. Unfortunately these coping mechanisms
are based on dysfunction and are harmful themselves.
They seek to ease pain and create pleasure
by either attempting to control other people
and outside situations or by becoming too
lenient and allowing another person to take
advantage.
If a parent
or other loved one's drinking bothers you,
you may feel very uncomfortable at home. This
can be extremely difficult for a teenager
and you may deal with it by lying to friends
to try and cover up what is going on at home.
Being embarrassed at family and school functions
becomes routine and often anger turns to rage
against the world for the injustice.
If you think
all your problems would be solved if the alcoholic
would just stop drinking then Alateen is for
you.
If you have
ever tried to accommodate, bargain with or
threaten to try and control another's drinking,
Alateen is for you.
If you have
allowed yourself to be put in a dangerous
situation or not spoken up for your rights
in fear of causing problems then Alateen is
for you.
Spencer Recovery
Centers can help teenage members of families
dealing with alcoholism redefine their lives
and get on the path of living life for themselves
rather than depending on someone else for
their happiness. Call us today for more information
about our alcohol and drug rehabilitation
centers and codependent recovery treatment
plans geared specifically to the problems
teenagers face. Spencer has introduced hundreds
of teenagers to Alateen with a strong foundation
in recovery based on our program. Call us
today for more information and let us help
you.
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